Just read this article in The Guardian.
There are reasons why people don’t achieve their goals. Do you know what they are? Here are some of the main ones.
Richard Wiseman, a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire, who led the analysis, said he and his team had asked 700 people about their strategies for achieving new year resolutions. Their goals ranged from losing weight or giving up smoking to gaining a qualification or starting a better rela
Of the 78% who failed, many had focused on the downside of not achieving the goals; they had suppressed their cravings, fantasised about being successful, and adopted a role model or relied on willpower alone.
“Many of these ideas are frequently recommended by self-help experts but our results suggest that they simply don’t work,” Wiseman said. “If you are trying to lose weight, it’s not enough to stick a picture of a model on your fridge or fantasise about being slimmer.”
The way to reach your goals is to know what you’re trying to achieve and why and then break it down into small, manageable steps. And then take action.
Dr Wiseman also says that last minute goals don’t work because you dont feel invested in them.
Start planning your goals now.
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